April 26, 2023

Dr. Guy Winch on Handling Rejection (& Waiting) in Admissions (Re-Release)

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This week, we're re-releasing a 2021 episode of Status Check with Spivey that is more relevant to our listeners than ever—our interview with Dr. Guy Winch. In what has ended up being one of our favorite episodes ever, Dr. Winch discusses his own experiences with rejection in admissions, the research behind these feelings, and specific interventions for moving forward confidently and positively. He also tells a story about the first time he applied to graduate school—he applied to 10 different programs, was denied by 9, and was "ghosted" (he literally never heard from them) by the 10th. Which makes his conversation with us not just incredibly helpful, but also relatable. We've all been rejected at something, many things—including those at the very pinnacle of their professional careers.

Dr. Guy Winch is one of the world's leading psychologists and speakers. He has delivered three TED Talks with over 30 million views combined, all three of which can be seen here. He has published three books and along with best-selling author Lori Gottlieb co-hosts the podcast Dear Therapists.

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Psychologist, Speaker, & Author

Dr. Guy Winch has delivered three TED Talks with over 25 million views, published three books, and co-hosts the popular podcast “Dear Therapists.”

Founder and CEO

Mike Spivey is one of the world's foremost legal and higher education experts.

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